WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU? NOT WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU.
The question we ask matters.
Featuring a woman wearing a sling marked “NOT,” this tee highlights the powerful difference between “What happened to you?” and “What’s wrong with you?”
One approaches people with curiosity and compassion. The other assumes there’s something wrong with the person rather than recognizing what they may have experienced.
It’s a simple shift in language, but it can change the entire conversation—especially around trauma, mental health and the struggles we can’t always see.
Wear it as a conversation starter, a reminder or a statement about how we choose to see one another.
Ask what happened. Don’t ask what’s wrong.
Product features
- 100% ring-spun cotton (lightweight 153 g/m²) for a soft, breathable feel
- Tubular knit without side seams for a clean silhouette and reduced waste
- Ribbed, elastic collar with shoulder tape for shape retention and durability
- Pearlized tear-away label for comfortable wear; meets safety and environmental standards (Oeko-Tex)
- DTG prints for the main design with DTF used on sleeves/inner neck when applicable; ethically sourced cotton
Care instructions
- Do not dryclean
- Do not bleach
- Tumble dry: low heat
- Iron, steam or dry: low heat
- Machine wash: cold (max 30C or 90F), with similar colors
WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU? NOT WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU.
The question we ask matters.
Featuring a woman wearing a sling marked “NOT,” this tee highlights the powerful difference between “What happened to you?” and “What’s wrong with you?”
One approaches people with curiosity and compassion. The other assumes there’s something wrong with the person rather than recognizing what they may have experienced.
It’s a simple shift in language, but it can change the entire conversation—especially around trauma, mental health and the struggles we can’t always see.
Wear it as a conversation starter, a reminder or a statement about how we choose to see one another.
Ask what happened. Don’t ask what’s wrong.
Product features
- 100% ring-spun cotton (lightweight 153 g/m²) for a soft, breathable feel
- Tubular knit without side seams for a clean silhouette and reduced waste
- Ribbed, elastic collar with shoulder tape for shape retention and durability
- Pearlized tear-away label for comfortable wear; meets safety and environmental standards (Oeko-Tex)
- DTG prints for the main design with DTF used on sleeves/inner neck when applicable; ethically sourced cotton
Care instructions
- Do not dryclean
- Do not bleach
- Tumble dry: low heat
- Iron, steam or dry: low heat
- Machine wash: cold (max 30C or 90F), with similar colors
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